I think this book can be a good conversation starter on what we can do when we feel jealous. I suggest this book because I like that it differentiates between feeling jealous and acting out in hurtful ways towards others.
I like that it gives legitimacy to feeling jealous (so kids don't suppress it or feel bad about themselves for feeling this way) but rather says it's ok and helps them deal with this feeling in a constructive way . It also sets limits to how you may act when you feel bad.
by Isabel Thomas
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